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日",[196,300,301],{},"前几天又和对象爆发了一次争吵，依旧先说背景。",[196,303,304],{},"前几天我跟对象分享过一件小事，我有个同事跟外省女方相亲的，为了结婚，花光了手里的积蓄买房装修并且房子买在了外省，便要女方将彩礼钱用来装修。目前彩礼钱几近花光，女方不愿意自己添钱，男方也不想再花钱，导致他们房子的装修近乎停止。我的本意只是分析，不愿做什么评论，没想到她听完之后很激动，说了很多自己的看法。我并不想替跟我没关系的事承担太多情绪，便跟她说不聊这个了，说了几句她觉得是我说起这个，又不让她说完。不过最终也没发生什么不愉快的事。",[196,306,307],{},"7 月 30 日，我同事手上甚至连买车险的钱都没了，找我借钱。下班回家时，我跟对象分享了这件事。对象又开始评论说如果是她自己，也接受不了还没结婚就要她掏钱。我有一些看法，但是觉得这话题并不会愉快，就闭着嘴一言不发。对象没什么察觉，继续说到，可能是由于她比较慕强。刚开始我们在一起时，她还是很崇拜我的，但是随着我们在一起生活，她就发现了我生活中还是有一些小缺点的。然后她开始说我做饭不好吃，我说吃东西全凭个人口味。她表示赞同，然后说我原来不喜欢手洗内裤，我说洗衣机洗更干净，而且跟她在一起之后，也坚持手洗了。然后她就沿着这个话题反复说，非要我承认手洗更干净，我说我都按你的要求手洗了，凭什么要我说违反常识的话。我觉得我并不在乎内裤是手洗还是机洗，所以才选择手洗，但是我更认可机洗更干净，不应该坚持让我说违反我尝试的话。她觉得我都手洗了，还要这么说，就是故意跟她对着来。然后她又说，如果没有她坚持做饭，依我的可能就经常点外卖了，那我们就攒不下钱来什么的。我说我吃外卖并不会影响我会把生活越过越好，之前我们租房的时候，做饭不方便就经常在外面下馆子，并不影响我还是买了房。她无言以对，我俩就坐在那里休息了一会儿。",[196,309,310],{},"过了一会我主动跟她搭话，她却直接说到，今天不要跟我讲话了，我说话很容易激起她的情绪。我听到她这话便不再理她，一切如常。直到我回到家，我突然觉得，这个话题不对劲，怎么就变成她数落我了？我说哦同事买房装修要女方出钱，她说如果是她，她不愿意，她慕强。那反观我买房主动写上她的名字，也没要她承担一分钱，甚至我俩在一起的开销基本全是我承担的，她凭什么就着这个话题数落我？想到这里我也不想迁就她了，便自己玩自己的去了。过了一会儿她在床上时不时戳我一下，有跟我示好的意思。但是我当时情绪不好，就问她有没有什么想说的，没有就睡觉去。她一言不发，我还是不想迁就她，就睡觉去了。她翻来覆去睡不着，半夜躲到客厅了。我出去问她到底想干什么？她情绪也不好，不耐烦的让我别管她。然后我们就争执起来了，具体细节不太记得，反正我把她说哭了，头一次在她落泪时没有停止我的输出。直到她有点崩溃的求我别说了，我才停下来，后来反正也算不上吵，各自开诚布公的说了自己想法，这事也就过去了，当时已经凌晨三点了，她昏昏沉沉睡过去，我大概四点半左右才睡。",{"title":312,"searchDepth":313,"depth":314,"links":315},"",2,3,[316,317,318],{"id":202,"depth":313,"text":202},{"id":246,"depth":313,"text":247},{"id":292,"depth":313,"text":293},[320],"随笔・自留",null,"2026-06-22","md",{},true,{"title":118,"description":312},[328,329],"两性关系","记录","2026-08-05","Wre7ijvlAQQlznlMs9_H-3h4plbs8lv2kzomKPwT6eI",4872,{"title":86,"path":87,"createdAt":322,"categories":334,"tags":336},[335],"思辨・自留",[328,337],"家庭关系",{"title":78,"path":79,"createdAt":339,"categories":340,"tags":341},"2026-06-09",[320],[328,342],"人生态度",[338,344,333,348,352],{"title":106,"path":107,"createdAt":345,"categories":346,"tags":347},"2026-07-30",[335],[328],{"title":98,"path":99,"createdAt":349,"categories":350,"tags":351},"2026-06-02",[335],[328,342],{"title":46,"path":47,"createdAt":353,"categories":354,"tags":355},"2026-05-25",[335],[328,342,356],"牢骚"]